But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapistto help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions will remain anonymous.
The crazy thing is — both men and women alike are always on the lookout for ways to give their partners or themselves the often- elusive clitoral orgasm. Good news! There are a few handy techniques that may help.
Can your clitoris get desensitized due to too much vibrator use? That kind of pressure makes nerve endings fatigued, and numbness is the result. But some people get so into the sensation that they do use a lot of pressure.
Recently, mainstream media has been paying a lot more attention to the clitoris. Finally, more and more people are realizing that the clit is amazing! With about 8, nerve endings to play with, the clit is good for a lot more than just racing toward a climax. Instead, let us propose a few ways you can have more fun with your clitoris.
Upon first glance, this sex toy could easily be pass as a skincare device. Rather the nozzle slips over the top of your clitoral hood and sends pressure waves towards it and has a light suction to mimic the feeling of oral sex. On first use I had played around with just one pattern variation and speed before I experienced a short and intense clitoral orgasm — even the lowest setting of vibration is quite something.
Yes, the world feels like a never ending onslaught of crap, but within the malaise we still have to find little nuggets of joy. For me, that little nugget appeared in the form a type of sex toy I had never heard of before: an oral sex simulator for women with vulvas. These toys claim to utilize suction in a variety of ways to mimic the sensations a clitoris would feel during oral sex.
When it comes to the clitoris, that old saying "different strokes for different folks" has never been more true. And, considering orgasms aren't even on the table for many women without some clit play, figuring out what makes you tick is pretty important. If you want more stimulation, make your circle tighter until you start touching the clitoris itself.
If you're looking to show your clitoris a little love and you're not sure where to begin, there are plenty of clitoral toys for you to explore. And they have some seriously ridiculous names, so feel free to make renaming them the first step on your exploratory adventure. Whether you're looking for a discreet toy you can leave on your dresser, an unobtrusive toy you can incorporate the next time you have intercourse, or a luxury toy that will leave you coming heh back for more, you're sure to find the perfect toy to treat yourself and your clitoris to. This multi-speed vibrator hides in plain sight as a chic, stainless steel necklace.
Is it time to upgrade your sex toy drawer? Maybe you already have a tried-and-true vibrator that gets you where you want to go, but you're looking for some variety; maybe you're completely new to sex toy ownership; maybe you're looking for the perfect product to try out with your partner. Whatever your intentions, ahead you'll find 37 intimate options to help heat up your sex life, both partnered and solo.
These descriptions objectively give you information but do not compare to the subjective experience. Additionally, each individual will have similarities and differences in their experience of orgasms when compared to someone else. When it comes to orgasms, there are many fascinating likenesses between genders.