Here we were in high school. So yeah, I knew them. I called them friends.
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God bless you, you wonderful angel. Anal sex is kind of the biggest deal ever. The act is so intense and delicate that I could never give my asshole to just anybody.
If your high school health class looked anything like mine, you sat in uncomfortable plastic chairs with post-pubescent boys and haphazardly learned about fallopian tubes. Although you may have learned the body parts and scientific angles of your reproductive system, you may have left the class still wondering, what does sex feel like? Of course, as long as what you're doing is consensual and pleasurable to you and your partner — there is no wrong or right way to have sex.
How do you feel about receiving oral sex? Is it at the very top of your sexual menu, or does even the thought of it make you uncomfortable? Maybe you don't really know.
My friend Erik introduced me to the term. We pulled into my driveway and I slunk into my home, opened up the purple Alienware laptop and Googled the term. A website and an online community availed itself. And though in a few months Erik had shucked the label and moved on to dating a perfectionist valedictorian from Erie, PA, I slowly absorbed the asexual label into myself.